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It's so funny how we set qualifications 

for the right person to love, 

while at the back of our minds 

we know that the person we truly love 

will always be an exception.

There would come a time 

when we have to stop loving someone 

not because that person started hating us 

but because we found out that 

they'd be happier if we let them go...

You will know when you really love someone 

when you want him to be happy 

even if their happiness means 

you are not a part of it.

If someone comes into your life 

and becomes a part of you 

but for some reasons he couldn't stay, 

don't cry too much... 

just be glad that your paths crossed 

and somehow he made you happy even for a while.  

There are some things that 

we never want to let go of... 

people we never want to leave behind; 

but keep in mind that letting go is not the end of the world, 

but rather it is the beginning of a new life.

Just because someone doesn't love you

The way you want him or her to, 

doesn't mean they don't love you 

with all he or she have.

Remember that the best relationship 

is when your love for each other is greater 

than your need for each other.

Two tear drops were floating down the river.

One teardrop said to the other, 

"I'm the teardrop of a girl who loved a man and lost him. 

Who are you?"..."

I'm the teardrop of the man who regret letting a girl go..."

You'll know that you miss someone very much 

when every time you think of that person, 

your heart breaks into pieces 

and just a quick "Hello" from that person 

can bring the broken pieces back.

When you love someone, 

draw a circle around their name instead of a heart 

because hearts can be broken but circles never end.

Just a thought:

What would you do if the only person 

who could make you stop crying 

is the person who makes you cry?

"Every step I took since the moment I could walk 

was a step towards finding you." 

You don't want to let go; 

but it's even more painful to ask someone to stay 

if you can never make the relationship 

work out the way it should be.

LOVE? 

It’s kind of complicated, but I'll tell you this...

the second you're willing to make yourself miserable 

to make someone else happy, that's love right. 

If I had the letters "HRT", 

I can add "EA" to get a "HEART" or a "U" and get "HURT". 

But I'd rather choose "U" and get "HURT 

than have a "HEART" without U"...

Giving someone all your love is not an assurance

that he will love you back.

Don't expect love in return, 

wait for it to grow in his heart,

if it doesn't, 

be contented it grows in you.

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone,

an hour to like someone, 

and a day to  fall in love with someone 

but it takes a lifetime

to really forget someone you have grown to love.

When friends fall in love, 

it means they are meant for each other. 

But when friends fall out of love, 

it means they want to keep each other forever...

Don't be too good I will miss you.

Don't be too caring, i might like you. 

Don't be too sweet, I might fall. 

It's hard for me to love you 

when you won't love me after all...

A heart truly in love never loses hope

But always believes.

What If someone tells you this:  I

Don't believe in courtship. 

It's just a waste of time.

If I love the person, I’ll tell her right away. 

But for you I will make an exception... 

just love me now and I'll court you forever...

A man realized he wanted his love back.

Not wanting to get hurt, the girl said 'no'.

The man cried to God and asked 

'If it is meant to be, why did I lose her?" 

God replied, 

"My child, you didn't lose her, you let her go..."

Of all the words of tongue and pen,

these are the saddest: "It could have been..."

No garden is complete without a rose to make it sweet. 

No life is ever full without someone to share it with, 

so take care of the person you love.

When all the wishes in your heart,

All the dreams you've ever had, 

and all the things you've always hoped for 

soared into the sky and were reflected in someone else's eyes; 

then you've found  your destiny...

It's always better to have found the courage to love 

even if you lose it in the end 

rather than never found love 

because you were too afraid of the challenge.

It's best to wait for the one you want

than settle for the one available, 

best to wait for the one you love 

than the one who's around,

best to wait for the right one 

because life is too short 

to be wasted on the wrong person.

I cry for the time that you were almost mine, 

I cry for the memories I've left behind, 

I cry for the pain, the lost, the old, the new... 

I cry for the times I thought I had you!

Relationships are like glass,

Sometimes it is better to leave them broken 

than try to hurt yourself putting it back together, 

or worse, have nothing strong to bind it together.

You never lose in loving. 

You only lose in holding back.

Don't throw your back to love 

when it's already in front of you, 

don't drive it away from you because if you did, 

someday you'll think again why you let love fly away 

when it was once next to you.

I will not love you for the rest of your life

but for the rest of mine.

You make me smile for no reason whatsoever, 

you make me laugh at the unfunniest things,

but most of all, you make me love you 

when I shouldn't be loving you.

The greatest challenge in our life is

To find someone who knows our flaws and differences

and yet still willingly embraces you with so much love.

When you look for the right person, 

you always end up with the wrong one. 

But when you just sit by the corner and wait, 

he comes along and shares the corner with you.

If time never stands still, 

I'll never leave your side. 

It may be too hard for me at times 

that you will not see me; 

but in my heart, you'll always be found.

If I were to describe love, 

I would compare it with what 

one snowman did to another snowman.

He gave her a warm embrace and 

together they melted in each other's arms.

The spaces between our fingers were created 

so that another person's fingers could fill them in.

"Whenever I watch romantic movies, 

witness couples kiss and make-up, listen to love songs... 

I smile and feel good 'cause I know that

Love still works, if not for me, 

at least to others."

I have to admit that I fell in love twice. 

First was with you and second was with the person 

you became when you were already mine.

Show the ones you love 

just how much you love them....

don't tell them...show them..

Remember actions speak louder than words

Always remember that ....

In life there are 3 things that can never be retrieved

the spoken words ,time past, the neglected opportunities....

You know you've been in love 

“when you want to have a total change 

and feel like destroying values you once lived by"

“when everyone you see reminds you of him"

 

Got it?

Little do I realize that it was gone. Not until my dad brought it up…. Oh no, it went missing. Who’s the *#@$^**# culprit? Itchy hand for fun or took it for replacement on ownself? Really, really funny leh…me and my family had good laughs. Why on earth can happen this kind of things wan?

 

 

So now, a bit ‘char’ reception on radio lor… especially in those weak reception areas, lagi no need say. Might be buying replacement later… not so soon. But on the other side, I think it’s also good that now I have more reason to concentrate playing the CDs. I can play all my faves, non-stop, one after another. Isn’t that cun? Well, if you have great taste of music, you’ll find yourself indulging into most piece of music played while in my car. I enjoyed and that’s why I slowed down. Hahahaha…..

 

 

Apparently, baby seems to need a bit of the luckier star like me. It hasn’t been good start for him…First, it was my own crash, my mistake. Then, there’s a lil’ scratch from I-don’t-know-who-again-this-time, but suspected human act. And then now the missing antenna case pulak… Me is so wondering, who and why taking vengeance onto my baby? Not that I done anything wrong, I just getting a new baby only ma…. Aiyo, let go la people! Leave the mum and child alone… give them some peace of mind, hor boh?

 

 

Let us be blessed and lucky, thank you.

060614 – Unpleasantly. Less than 2 months old, baby already has collision. Into divider not because of third party, but due to own carelessness. Late for movie, left in excitement and wasn’t paying attention and ran into the parking divider. The screeching noise and ooops…. Arhh… slightly hurt, but I still laughed for my mistake. Aiyo… how cann be? Have been a reputable racer & best to avoid sitting-in-car in the office, unless born with guts… and now where gone the ego? Hahaha…. Frankly, I don’t anymore. Toning down a lil’….trying. No longer like last time braving for challenging rides. Learning to love myself & my baby.

 

 

Actually I went for FF: Tokyo Drift on that day. Comparing to the crashes scenes, mine was just peanut la… Minor dents and scratches. But, silly how can you make comparison with that? People earn big bucks from the movie. Who pay your bills? Who?? Me lor… There flew my 150 notes for the plastic surgery. Poor child!

                

Before & After Extreme Makeover (hahahaha =D)

                                                

      

 

Got this forwarded frm both my Mr. Happy-Go-Lucky friends. Just wanted to share with you all - just in case my friend, you are still lost. Having been in that shoe, I know it’s not easy. But look at me! I have stand and keep walking now. That’s my choice.

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There are times in our lives when we feel ‘lost’……. when we are feeling, depressed, confused, betrayed, hopeless, lonely, alone. A prolonged feeling of being ‘lost’ can be devastating for a person, even to the extent of being suicidal.

So when you are feeling ‘lost’ this is what you do:

STEP 1
Be gratefull that you are still alive! Your heart may hurt, your head spinning, your soul crushed, but admit and accept the very fact that you are still ALIVE! For some positive reason God has kept you alive so far, so choose to stay calm and stay alive lah

STEP 2
Look for people who could help you or anything else that could help too. People can be friends, parents, family, counsellors, coaches, etc. Anything else can be the Quran, books, music, …….. in short, look around you for anything that can help you make a decison for you to move on. Look at the Choices you have. When you talk to people and ask for their opinion, remember, they are only giving you THEIR OPINION. Whether you want to accept, reject or modify their opinion is totally Your Choice. Whatever it is, the most important thing is CHOOSE. Do something about it. Move. If doesn’t make you happy, make another choice and CHOOSE again. Continue to do that until you are happy about it. This process may take a day and a night, it may even take a year……. at least you are doing something about it

STEP 3
Make it crystal clear where you want to go or move on to. Where you want to go can also mean what is your end, your objective, what you want to acomplish, your Goal. If you do not have a target or objective, then how will you know how to get there? So get your goals Crystal Clear. One of the fastest way to get your goals clear is to Write It Down, or draw it……describe it in detail. By writing your goals down, it will act as a Map that you will always refer to as you find your way out of that thick ‘jungle’ of problems that you face before reaching your goals or destination.

Step 4
With your goals clear and map in hand, you will now look for Signs and Direction to lead you the Right Way. The signs are all around us actually.And if you can’t see them, all you have to do is look up…… and Pray. God is Always with you, so all you have to do is look Up and Ask for God’s Guidance. Everything happens with God’s Will, yes?

Step 5
Every experience is a learning experience. Hence, Learn from the Past, Plan for Your Future, Take Charge Now Whatever happened in your life, happened. Stop talking about it and move on. Talk about the Past and you’ll stay in the Past. Learn from the Past. Improve and Plan for your Future. And Take Charge! of your Life Now Why wait when you can do it now? Of course you can!

Remember, being ‘lost’ is a Choice. You can choose to continue to be ‘lost’ or you can Choose to Find Yourself and Take Charge! of your Life. Your Choice. So Choose

Take care. Take Charge! Stop Bangau-ing

Best seller influence, The DaVinci Code has given a friend of mine to role-play in breaking code. Hahaha… not being sarcastic, but it is fun to become a wanna-be. At least, both sides have fun, one side giving & the other side enjoys breaking.

 

What’s the code then? Well, it has something to do with the picture that I’ve asked him to host for me so that I can upload. It’s a picture of mayday. So what does this mayday got to do with the code? I must say if you able to break it, then congratulations! You’ve just arrive at another spot. Blogspot.com. Here’s the clue:

 

Just as the picture suggest, it’s the word that rhymes alike, with a bridge that join them two together.