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So your relationship ended…she no longer the partner in so many ways that you’ve been with for so long. And your world suddenly turned upside down, no one to share your activities and your weekend life sucks. The now lonely you frequent to pubs for a beer or two to call it a night, so borrring….

 

 

Sad enough when you don’t have friends that make it easy to go out and meet women, maybe you have lost in touch with the single friends. Worst, you find that the guys you know mostly already married or in relationships by now. Taking time wondering how to get over your ex-… and go on with life? Venturing into the dating world again:

 

 

What to do?

 

 

Where to start?

 

 

A little excitement in you about the possibility of meeting a new woman… or two…but you felt needy, lonely, insecure feeling ‘coz you was dumped. While struggling to get over your ex, at the same time you are unsure if you will ever find another woman as good as the one you lost?

 

 

Then luck strokes pass. Having new women friends and there’s new chance to getting back into the dating scene. But you don’t realize on your blind-self.

 

 

Maybe you noticed you’re not getting any younger; being 30 for instance, you became more and more self-conscious about your looks. Insecure as time goes on. Where’s your mojo, where’s your confidence?

 

 

Desperately needing for a woman’s attention, your clingy, needy behavior shows you’re insecure when you tell her how you feel for her or worse yet, asking her how she feels about you from the very beginning. To add-on, you haven’t fully put a past to your previous relationship. Things weren’t so easy for you and it’s hard to let go. Inside, you wished her happiness with her new found steady while she’s still with you without you knowing, but deep down you still hold resentment.

 

 

Well, if you, yes yoouuu, poor little boy are reading this now….don’t kill me for blogging it here. I think this might be a good input for other men not to repeat similar mistakes, including yourself. As your pal, knowing you so Leo-typified egoistic man, I’m not sure if I can tell you straight to the face but what I’m trying to say is that stop being foolish and childish ok? Be mature, be friendly to every woman you have come in contact with. Even if she isn’t the one that you-think-you-wanted-to-spend-the-rest-of-your-life-with, you can still make friends. Remember, you need friends to rebuild your social network and beyond. You can’t run away just like that after a dinner or two. Take times to learn your new acquaintances. Hiding at home and avoiding bring you no good either. Being selfish and ball-less is definitely not a MAN trait. You aren’t that, are you? Wish you all the best, my friend