Woman are choosy?……. Think again.
3 women, in their late 20s or early 30s were dining in a steak house. One of them sighed, “Where has all the good man goes?” At a glance, they look presentable, independent working ladies. Wondering if there’s any thing wrong on earth, why is the population of good men is becoming lesser in numbers? Excludes those that already belongs to others, why are there many good ones turn homo? And what is there to spare on?
Lots of questions filled the air, one by one.
Will any of them consider a divorced man for a relationship? Well, if there’s a choice, obviously not. Even said so, this kind of thing is hard to predict. Because love is blind, and when you deeply in love with someone, you will take in the whole package. You wouldn’t know your standing, not until that day enters your life when you finally have to decide.
Then, can you accept being the second wife? Of course there’s no such thing as second wife in Malaysia monogamy practice, except for Malays. So, specifically, a mistress it is. Well, if you asked me, I always try to opt out from this kind of triangle relations ‘coz it’s meaningless. But, it’s totally bizarre input when I heard one of the lass said she doesn’t mind, as long it’s on contractual basis, 1 year for max. Wow! Not so bad idea afterall, leisure and shopping freedom with financial relief from the man.
Will you consider other races? Mixed replies; one accepts only their skin colour. One thinks it’s not an issue after experiencing herself with different cultures. Then the other one remains silent, unsure. To what extend?
Does age matter then? No one likes someone younger in general. However, like said, love is blind. There are happy couples where the hubby is younger than the wife, and they can still live blissfully together. On the other hand, what’s the max age of the opposite sex that you’ll still consider? 6 to 7 years still Ok. What if, 10 years or more? Tough,… but if he’s someone who holds high position in a corporation or someone who’s own boss, chances still alive. Maybe some will think this is so materialistic-minded, but putting yourself into these woman shoes, you’ll see the underlying needs that woman needs security, assurance and stability from their partners.
What if the man is 10 years older, successful businessman but then is balding? What’s the likelihood then? Shocked, everyone kept silent. None dare to think further. It’s totally understandable. Who doesn’t want a partner that they can proudly bring on to public? Looks of course is important. Not to demand a 100% handsome looking one, but somehow it does matters.
Hmm, “why we are still single?” The question popped up again.
It’s not that there are no single friends around, then why not give a try getting together? “What?!! Come on, friend is friend, no crossing border” in a very serious expression I saw on this lady face. “Why don’t you try then?” she adds on. Interesting, I thought. Well, if there’s no feeling or the cliché so-called ‘chemistry’, how can it work? It’s just not your cup of tea. Life always makes fun on people. Those you like seem harder to get closer with, and those that you dislike but like you keep showing up in front of you. Isn’t it annoying? Haha.
So what is their problem? Are these woman has becoming choosy in picking up their partner of life? Make me wonder too. I try to explore and then I see the horizon and I come to realise. Because time is running out, they need to get the right one this time around. Theirs ultimate is to have found someone best fit walking down the aisle together one day and living happily ever after. Deep down, all woman asks for is the joy of sharing, embrace in tenderness and care, feeling love and beloved without worrying about future, spending many good laughter times with her dearly spouse together for the rest of her life .
So to these 3 little women (and others of similar fate out there), I wish upon the star that it will soon bring you luck in meeting your prince charming!! Lets the love blossoms 
